Better sex

Fisting ass

Hosting a hand inside your ass can be quite an extraordinary experience.

Some people find delight in working their way up far further than just the hand, while others get off on the sensation of stretching and density. Fisting can be porn star brutal but also loving and caring.

Safe, pleasurable fisting is possible with a calmness, responsibility and awareness both in the person(s) giving and receiving. Fisting often gets more enjoyable with experience.

There are some things you can do to prepare the way… since the fist might go deeper then the cock, most people like to do more then to take a dump. You can prepare by eating soup the day before. Fibers are good and do avoid white bread and similar food. A tasty spicy dish is also not recommended… Some people prefere to take an enema pill before, other like to douche thoroughly like an hour before. Afterwards one might need to massage the belly in order to get rid of the excess water that otherwise might come out during the fisting session.

During a fist fuck, it is really really important to be conscious of both your own body and the other person(s) body/bodies and boundaries. This makes for a respectful start. Take the time to relax together and let the body gradually adjust to accommodate bigger and bigger things. Everybody’s body is different. Some people can take in nearly an entire hand on the first try, while others will have to try a few times over a longer period. Be patient! For instance, start with one finger and maybe some rimming (sensual ass licking). Then try adding more fingers, and fucking with a cock or dildo. If it hurts or feels unpleasant, slow things down or stop. Try to ‘read’ each other using words, or being aware of the signals conveyed by moans, breathing and body language.

To make fisting safer and more pleasurable, it’s vital to use plenty of lubrication. Various kinds of fats can be used for fisting, but they don’t mix well with condoms – read more below.

The tissue in the rectum is quite thin and fragile, which means damage and bleeding can easily occur. To reduce the risk of injury, it’s recommended that  the giver has short, well-filed nails and removes any rings and other jewelry that may scratch and tear the ass. Anal bleeding increases the risk of passing on or receiving HIV, hepatitis B and hepatitis C. These can also be transmitted if the giver has any minor wounds on the hands and arms. Latex or plastic gloves provide good protection for both giver and receiver and are widely available from drug stores. Never use the same glove on more than one person.

Some people use oil-based creams (such as J-lube, Crisco or skin lotions) when fisting, but be aware that it damages latex condoms. If you want to use an oil-based fat as lube, it’s a good idea to use plastic gloves. If you fancy a fuck, fuck using a standard condom before you fist. Oil-based creams can remain in the body and continue to damage latex condoms for up to 24 hours after usage. But you can always use plastic condoms, order them online since they are usually not avaliable in regual stores.

The ass is sensitive after fisting, both inside and around the anal opening. For this reason, it’s particularly important to use a condom if you’re fucking within the next few days after fisting. Also avoid licking an ass that’s been recently fisted.

Take care of yourself and your fisting buddies!

Anal sex

It’s wonderful to give a fuck. It’s fucking heavenly. To fuck someone or to be fucked in the ass is a versatile pleasure. It’s a gift that just keeps on giving! The best...

Read more

BDSM

A lot of sex play that you fantasize about might not fit neatly within the confines of the basic sex education that you were taught at school. BDSM might very well be one...

Read more

Blow jobs

Sucking cock, blow jobs, giving head, going down, oral sex- whichever term you know it by, it’s a great act. And like many great things, everybody has their individual styles and preferences for...

Read more

Condoms

Using a condom is an effective way of reducing the risk of HIV transmission and of many other types of STIs. Condoms give you the freedom to have great sex with anyone you...

Read more

Cunnilingus

Many transgendered men have pussies so we thought we ought to include how to eat one. Some transgendered men have a particular preferred term for this sweet spot, perhaps “pussy” isn’t it. When...

Read more

Female condom

Femidom is a trademarked brand, but is used as a general term for the female condom, or receiver’s condom. The partner on the receiving end inserts it, rather than the person doing the...

Read more

Fisting ass

Hosting a hand inside your ass can be quite an extraordinary experience. Some people find delight in working their way up far further than just the hand, while others get off on the...

Read more

Fisting pussy

Some guys have dicks. Some guys have pussies (although trans men might call their sweet spot by another name). A hand up the pussy can be a fulfilling pleasure, literally. Apart from the...

Read more

Kinky play

Catheters/urethra games You might know this part of the cock as the ‘glans’ or ‘helmet’. It’s located at the opening of the urethra and it is highly sensitive to touch, especially the area...

Read more

Lubrication

Lube lube lube…ah lubrication. It makes a lot of sex even more fabulous! The ass doesn’t have much of its own natural lubrication, so by using lube you’re also being kind to the...

Read more

Prostate massage

The prostate is like a G-spot that most guys and some trans women have in their ass. It is sometimes known as the P-spot, and it’s the gland that produces the secretion in...

Read more

Relationships

Relationships, like cocks, condoms and musical instruments, come in all varieties. Some people have relationships with one person. Some have relationships with a few other people but only share feelings and sex with...

Read more

Rimming

The ass is a nerve center for all kinds of pleasure. Rimming is exploring the anus with the tongue or mouth, or running the tongue between the butt cheeks. The slang for this...

Read more

Toys

Apart from our bodies, there are all kinds of tools and toys we can use when we have sex. We know that even thousands of years ago, people used dildos made of wood...

Read more