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The prostate is like a G-spot that most guys and some trans women have in their ass.

It is sometimes known as the P-spot, and it’s the gland that produces the secretion in sperm. On most guys it’s about two inches/five centimetres up into the anal passage, towards the navel. It’s about the size of a walnut and is sensitive to touch.

It can be tricky sometimes to find the prostate. The easiest way is for the lucky receiver to lie on his back with their knees drawn up to the chest and legs apart. Spread lubricant onto one or more fingers and insert them carefully. Feel how the arse muscles are tightening and relaxing. Be sure to be gentle and sensitive to the receiving partner’s sounds and movements. Bend your fingers upwards slightly toward the stomach as if beckoning to somebody and massage the prostate gently. If you’re the receiver, guide the giver out by communicating what feels good. Maybe an appreciative moan?

Another sometimes neglected part of the body is the perineum, the area between the anus and scrotum. Try massaging the prostate and the perineum at the same time! Heavenly! The giver should be in front of the receiver. Find the prostate with the index and middle fingers and use your thumb to massage the perineum. This way, the prostate gets massaged from two directions.

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