fbpxRimming - Sexperterna

Better sex

Rimming

The ass is a nerve center for all kinds of pleasure.

Rimming is exploring the anus with the tongue or mouth or running the tongue between the butt cheeks.

The slang for this is known as ‘tossing the salad’. It can be done lightly, teasingly, and playfully, or be given as a deep tongue-fuck, holding the cheeks apart for better access. It doesn’t even have to involve bodily contact: Try spitting and blowing gently, it can lead to unimagined pleasure. The great thing about rimming is the dual pleasure of it. You can lick arse to show your submission, how grateful you are to serve your master, but it’s also a way of softening up the person you’re about to screw. Regardless of how and why you do it, enjoy it.

Lick first, fuck second is a good general rule, as anal penetration can produce tiny wounds in the anal fissure. Licking and being licked before fucking is a great way of having safer sex, as it entails virtually no risk of passing on HIV or other STIs, whit the exception of hepatitis A. Washing around the anus with soap and water before rimming also reduces the risk of transmitting intestinal bacteria. Having said that, don’t let hygiene set your rules. Think about what’s important foryou, what turnsyouon. Is a clean body the same thing as a body that smells of soap, or is the body’s natural smell what really turns you on?

Was this article useful?

Anal sex

It’s wonderful to give a fuck. It’s fucking heavenly. To fuck someone or to be fucked in the arse is a versatile pleasure. It’s a gift that just keeps on giving! The best...

Read more

BDSM

A lot of sex play that you fantasise about might not fit neatly within the confines of the basic sex education that you were taught at school. BDSM might very well be one...

Read more

Blow jobs

Sucking cock, blowjobs, giving head, going down, oral sex – whichever term you know it by, it’s a great act. And like many great things, everybody has their individual styles and preferences for...

Read more

Condoms

Using a condom is an effective way of reducing the risk of HIV transmission and of many other types of STIs. To order free condoms from us click here.  Condoms give you the...

Read more

Cunnilingus

Many transgendered men have pussies, so we thought we ought to include how to eat one. Some transgendered men have a particular preferred term for this sweet spot, perhaps “pussy” isn’t it. When...

Read more

Female condom

Femidom is a trademarked brand but is used as a general term for the female condom, or receiver’s condom. The partner on the receiving end inserts it, rather than the person doing the...

Read more

Fisting ass

Hosting a hand inside your arse can be quite an extraordinary experience. Some people find delight in working their way up way further than just the hand, while others get off on the...

Read more

Fisting pussy

Some guys have dicks. Some guys have pussies (although trans men might call their sweet spot by another name). A hand up the pussy can be a fulfilling pleasure, literally. Apart from the...

Read more

Kinky play

Catheters/urethra games You might know this part of the cock as the glans or ‘helmet’. It’s located at the opening of the urethra, and it is highly sensitive to touch, especially the area...

Read more

Lubrication

Lube lube lube…ah lubrication. It makes a lot of sex even more fabulous! The arse doesn’t have much of its own natural lubrication, so by using lube you’re also being kind to the...

Read more

Prostate massage

The prostate is like a G-spot that most guys and some trans women have in their ass. It is sometimes known as the P-spot, and it’s the gland that produces the secretion in...

Read more

Relationships

Relationships, like cocks, condoms and musical instruments, come in all varieties. Some people have relationships with one person. Some have relationships with a few other people but only share certain feelings and sex...

Read more

Toys

Apart from our bodies, there are all kinds of tools and toys we can use when we have sex. We know that even thousands of years ago, people used dildos made of wood...

Read more